Showing posts with label racist. Show all posts
Showing posts with label racist. Show all posts

Monday, October 22, 2018

MY BIRTHDAY WISH(ES)

I TURN 54 TODAY

1.     I want the world designed for all -- so folks aged 8 to 80 can get around without obstructions, restrictions, threats of injury, or damage to their dignity.

2.     I want folks who use assistive mobility devices, who have hearing loss, who have vision impairments, who have cognitive issues -- to be known as people with disabilities. Because the person part matters more than disability.

3.     I want every writer and editor to stop saying “wheelchair bound” and “confined to a wheelchair.” First it is inaccurate. My wife sleeps, bathes and does tons of things without her mobility device. Second, it is pejorative. We hear the dog whistle. Nothing good comes out of being confined or bound to something, so we know these modifiers are code words for “devalued” or “less than human.”

4.     I want assistive mobility devices -- wheelchairs (power and push), scooters, rolling walkers, crutches, etc. -- to be looked at simply as what they are: devices that enable mobility. Most people live five miles or more from work. They jump in a sedan to make it in on time, because it would take an hour to walk it. Why do I never hear them described as poor souls that are Toyota-bound, or confined to a Chevy?

5.     I would like the media to really cover strong, global, prevailing issues in the disability community. Far too often -- when I worked in a newsroom and right up through today when folks are as likely to get their news via tweet or website as TV, radio or printed paper -- the editor's idea of covering an issue on disability is to do the "super gimp" profile. A person in a wheelchair has been elected to the city council, or they are chair of the library board or the new VP for student affairs at the local university. The story could detail what knowledge and experience they will bring, as someone who likely had to struggle for accommodations in grade school, at college, in the work place, etc.

Instead, they all but say the "normal" people, the able bodied, should be shocked and amazed that a "pathetic cripple" can someone sob story their way into a position of respect and power. How many editors would say this of a person of color? That it is amazing they could "overcome" their blackness and be something more than a shoe shine guy or maid? If a modern story fell into the Jim Crow time machine and came out inaccurately labeling African Americans this way, it would be correctly judged as racist and the bigoted writer/editor/publisher would be justifiably fired. Yet negative stereotyping of people with disabilities in all modern media is the rule, not the exception.

Is it relevant to write about the first African American fire chief, or the first person who uses a wheelchair for mobility to be elected to the city commission? Yes. Should the story focus on the unique insights their minority status gave them and how they plan to use that to make the organization they serve more inclusive? You bet.  But I would hope in the year 2018 that a news story would not fawn over the fact that someone "overcame the impossibly long odds" of becoming a community leader despite the confines (and implied inferiority) of being black, female, Hispanic, etc.

Sadly, virtually every story of achievement about a person with a disability perpetuates medieval stereotypes by building a portrayal that implies we able bodied (who should thank every deity know that we're not a pathetic cripple) are still far superior to the person with a disability who lucked into the job, got the sympathy vote, and rose above half-human status. 

Thursday, October 13, 2016

TRUMP SUPPORTER DECODER


In case you have a friend that you thought was sane and decent – but doggedly sticks to supporting Donald Trump…

You know, the people who cling to pathetic excuses like “we need a businessman to shake things up” or “we need to turn back the clock and make America what it was.”

Well, we’ve been up all night coming up with a decoder for what they really mean:

THEY SAY
“Hillary is a liar.”

THEY MEAN
“Women should be barefoot and pregnant, how dare they be leaders.”

THEY SAY
“The presidency is a disaster.”

THEY MEAN
“I couldn’t stand the thought of a black man in the White House and I can’t wait for it to end.”

THEY SAY
“Trump speaks his mind and we need that.”

THEY MEAN
“I would like to go back to the ugly period in America when Hispanics were thought of as janitors...I long for the days when you could beat up a person just because they had a same sex partner.”

THEY SAY
“Trump is defeating political correctness, thank goodness.”

THEY MEAN
“I wish we could go back to calling folks with developmental disabilities “retards,” hearing impaired folks with speech difficulties “dummies” and those with mobility impairments “pathetic cripples.” And while we’re at it, I wish I could deny those half humans access to jobs, housing, marriage, child birth and all other human rights.”




So just in case you were ready to give the benefit of doubt to your Trump-defending business associate, neighbor, colleague...this is what they really feel in their black hearts.

They had a year to process hundreds of examples of bullying, hate, bigotry and pure evil.

They can claim they are simply voting for the “Republican nominee” because in their world, it’s the GOP way or no way.

But by this point, they have to be full of BS. If they defend trump, they despise diversity.

So to recap, if you are black, gay, disabled, female, just plain different…or if you love, care for or support the rights of anyone in these groups…you are a stinking piece of crap in the eyes of a shameless Trump supporter.

They would allow your daughter to be sexually assaulted, so long as the monster committing the assault is white and rich and powerful and famous. Their leader said so himself. And they have no problem with this.

They think you should be mocked, even if you lost a brave son in the war, if you faithfully follow a religion based on peace and love.

They might use slick words. Speak in code. But bigotry and hatred thrives in their heart of darkness.

They might be polite in public, but rest assured, if you do not fit their Aryan Nation view of what America should be, they are mocking you and wishing the worst on you as you turn away from the conversation and walk back to the family and community you love and respect.

You have been warned.

These views are my own (though I can't image they are not shared by every decent, diverse, humane person I know)